Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is cheating on me. He has no idea that I know and I have no idea what to do... I'm afraid to lose him. In sorry to bother you, but would you happen to have any advice?
Confront him and be brave. You’re not doing anything wrong and you shouldn’t be scared to tell him that he’s a cheating asshole! I’m sorry but I fucking hate cheaters! They are selfish and care about nothing but their desires and then make their gf/bf feel like complete shit which then knocks their confidence down and the only thing the cheater is sorry about is getting caught!
He should suffer and I know you don’t want to lose him, but why on earth would you want to be with someone who clearly does not give a flying fuck about you. If he did, he would never have cheated! Don’t ever let him make you feel guilty for what he’s done and most of all, think about what this will do to your relationship if you do forgive him.
You will not be able to trust him again, and if you do, it will not be for a very long time trust me. I’ve been where you are and I know how much it hurts, but don’t ever let a guy walk all over you. If you forgive him then you need to make it clear that it is the last time ever, or he might get a funny idea like all cheaters do, that because you forgave him once, you might just do it again and then it becomes a habit. If you think you can leave him, then do it now and save yourself from this guy. If he cares about you, he wouldn’t be near any other girl.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this but he needs to know that you know, he shouldn’t be allowed the privilege of thinking that he’s getting away with cheating on you. Stab him with the truth and don’t make it easy. You deserve so much better beautiful and I assure that if things don’t work out, it’s for a reason. That reason is, that someone else out there is waiting to meet you and he would probably worship the ground you walk on xxx